Detachment

Virtue of Detachment

Detachment is one of my favorite virtues to practice. Just the other day I removed to the trash a few games on my phone. This would have led me to fill in my time with nonsensical busyness. Regardless of how high my levels of play were, I moved them calmly to the trash can on my phone. It felt freeing and it also showed me later in the day, how addicted I was to it. Because the first thing I did when I picked up my phone was to go to those games. From time to time this is a good practice it helps build the strength to let go of other things that may seem hard to do. 

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I really believe when we start unloading all the unnecessary stuff, we collect in one's lifetime, it truly is easier and freeing to do more important things like time with God. You'll never say I don't have time for that.

Detachment helps us to focus on God. Just like my example about my phone games, I would get a feeling or thought that I should be reading something spiritual. But instead I would say to myself later, this is how we so easily offend God by choosing something that is uttertly unimportant.

By practicing detachment, we are not worrying about what we have or what we need to still obtain but experiencing freedom. It really is a freeing experience to let go of things that occupy our time. Don't get me wrong it wasn't easy in the beginning but as I do this more and more it gets easier. Notice how I mentioned DO because it is a constant practice, because our nature always wants to resort to habit.

We can have excessive attachment to things, such as greed, envy and pride. I started downsizing things like clothes, shoes, bags and even too much furniture. All these things are not necessary to have true happiness in life and especially not with God. 

It's funny as I was writing this I was listening to an old movie and the women in it made a comment, "When you see a Hurse you don't see a U-Haul attached." I laughed it was so fitting to this conversation.

Is it time for you to simplify your possessions?

There are several possessions, it's not just material things. It could be food, money, relationships maybe even a job that's going nowhere. 

This may be easy for some, but others it could be devastating to even think about. And maybe just thinking about it could be the first step. Whatever you do, don't go all hog wild and find that your spouse or partner wasn't ready to get rid of that thing you thought was garbage. This is a process, but one well worth it. 

Through prayer, we can seek God's guidance and strength to let go of our attachments. 

What are some Challenges and Rewards of Letting Go?

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Challenges

Cultural pressure is my nudge, I'm constantly seeing, hearing, and feeling the more I have, the more I am worth. How about you?

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Rewards

Number one reward spiritual freedom, we free ourselves from burdens and anxieties about this stuff. I couldn't bear the disappointment in the end if nobody wants the stuff that meant so much to me.

How about fear of losing everything. Fear can make us hold on tighter to our possessions. I remember always commenting to my parents, that we come into the world naked, and we go out naked. What do we have to fear?

We become attentive to others, not wasting time on our possessions. Can't spend time with you, have to clean my beautiful car this weekend. 
What keeps you from doing things with others?

Some may misunderstand detachment as not caring. If we love and value things in the right way, without allowing them to take the place of God in our hearts. 

When my dad passed away there was a photo album that I wanted, it was special to me because him and I shared memory looking at it together. Through a family dispute and long story, I didn't get it. My dad once told me that those photo's that he so much enjoyed himself were written on his heart and he always had the memories.

I think I mentioned this somewhere on my website. Our treasures are in Heaven, I call it the 401G, g for God.

Seriously though, if you can develop this letting go process, your perspective on life and your spiritual journey will change in unbelievable ways.