Courage and Fortitude

Understanding Courage and Fortitude

 Courage, I mentioned on my about me page about having courage to write a website based on my own personal experience with God and my journey back home. Courage and fortitude are essential to building virtues on our spiritual journey.

Courage is about facing challenges and overcoming fears. One recent fear I had to overcome was the pandemic that hit the world in 2020. I used to sit and listen to my parents explain to me about the depression and food lines. I didn't fully understand what they had to experience in their lifetime. And now here I was facing my own experience.

So many times, I wished they were still here to just talk about what was happening and at the same time I was grateful they were gone. I couldn't fathom losing them in that time.

I had to muster up a lot of courage during this time. Courage to continue to go to work, continue to pray for my family and friends. And overcome extreme fears that were being broadcasted in every way possible.

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Having to face the uncertainty of the pandemic was very difficult in many ways. I tried to follow rules and regulations but deep in my heart of hearts I had to trust the one and only thing that I knew would be true and right, God.

God helped me with fear and peer pressure at work, not being afraid to do what was moral as human beings. I thank God for being who I am, that I would never lead anyone to make a decision that wasn't right for them.

It was important for me as it still is to stand up when it is unpopular or dangerous. 

If you think about Rosa Parks to not give up her seat on that bus. It was a courageous act on her part to stand up in the face of racial segregation.

Or Nelson Mandela unwavering commitment to justice.

There are so many of us that have the light of Jesus, yet we are afraid of dying, losing our jobs, not falling in lock step with the rest. Whatever the reason, we need to pray and practice courage.

Fortitude is different than courage because it pertains to mental and emotional strength. Which even in the pandemic these strengths were just as important. 

So many people become depressed because of lockdowns. Why did that occur?

Fortitude is often associated with patience, perseverance and inner strength. Which one did you feel you had more of Courage or Fortitude?


Developing Courage and Fortitude

 Developing Courage and Fortitude is what I have been doing on this page. Just writing and enjoying it. It's about being intentional in what you do.

You may have to encourage yourself with positive affirmations and remind yourself you have the ability to be successful. 

Set realistic goals for yourself and then gradually increase the difficulty as you build up your confidence.

If you need to do it with others to for support then by all means. You may find your strengths in sharing your goals with others. 

Embrace failure. I say that all the time especially about the website project. What did I lose to do it. Along the way I have gained so much more than money could ever buy.

Practical Ideas for Applying Courage and Fortitude

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Try to figure out what scares you and why. Once you have an  idea what's getting in your way face it, do it anyway to overcome it. 

Small steps are important. I started this website oh about two or three years ago. I had the basics. So many fears came about writing, telling my personal stories. I had to overcome obstacles before I could move forward. The rewards are great, I can see in myself places where I still need work and others where I have developed. 

Every time I have to write a new page, I get the feeling that I can't, and I need to give up. Who cares about this site anyway? The answer to that is ME. It doesn't matter what others think. I'm not wasting my time I am growing in my faith.

So I encourage you to have courage and the fortitude to try something new. Go after your dream, be creative and enjoy.

Challenges and Rewards of Courage and Fortitude

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Challenges

There are always obstacles that will challenge us when building any virtue in life. But understanding overcoming fear allows you to move forward.

Rewards

Courageous people attract like-minded people. You develop deeper and more meaningful relationships

Building confidence helps you make small steps towards accomplishments.

Resilience enhances your ability to bounce back more quickly. Having a stronger sense of self.

How many times have you had an idea, and you told a friend or family member and suddenly you were discouraged by their fears. Stay true to your beliefs and values and you may surprise yourself.

My dad used to tell my sister and I, if you're in a heavy down pour slow and steady keep on going. This persistence and courage have been key to me developing potential and realizing it.