Path 2 · The Way · Our Lady of Mount Virgin
Middlesex, New Jersey · Station 7 of 14
The second fall asks a harder question than the first: what happens when we fail again?
Here at Our Lady of Mount Virgin, Jesus falls a second time beneath the weight of the Cross. It is a moment that marks more than physical suffering — it is a picture of His willingness to endure immense hardship, a second time, for the redemption of humanity.
Fully God and fully human, He does not skip past the human cost of this road. He embraces it completely, sin by sin, fall by fall — still committed, every time, to rising and continuing toward what His Father asked of Him.
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V. We adore Thee, O Christ, and we praise Thee.
R. Because by Thy holy Cross, Thou hast redeemed the world.
Jesus falls a second time. A reminder of how I will continue to fail, again and again, because of my weak flesh.
“My most gentle Jesus, how many times hast Thou pardoned me, and how many times have I fallen again. Oh, by the merits of this new fall, help me to persevere in Thy grace until death.”
— Saint Alphonsus Liguori, The Way of the Cross
V. Have mercy upon us, O Lord. R. Have mercy on us. May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
My Prayer
God, my prayer here is a very important one. Please always keep me aware of the falling, the shattering, so with Your help I can get up and do better. Amen.
Pray Together
Sit With It
Mary
Unwavering, Even Here
I watch Him fall again, and grief presses in deeper than the first time. But I do not run. I plant my feet, and I stay exactly where I am, because that is the only thing I know how to give Him right now.
What does it look like for you to stay planted when someone you love is struggling again?
Simon of Cyrene
Still Here, Still Carrying
I have been walking beside Him since the fifth station, and this fall reaches me differently than the first one did. I wonder if He has changed how I see all of this — or if I have simply stopped being a stranger to His suffering.
Has staying close to someone’s suffering ever changed how you understood your own?
Veronica
What a Small Kindness Leaves Behind
My scarf is still marked with His face from the station before. Watching Him fall again, I understand that one act of kindness was never going to be enough — compassion has to keep showing up, over and over, the same way the falling does.
Where might your compassion need to show up more than once?
The Crowd
So Many Ways to Watch
Some of us are still mocking. Others, the women of Jerusalem among them, are openly weeping. I stand somewhere in between, not sure yet which reaction is mine.
When you witness someone else’s repeated struggle, which reaction do you find yourself defaulting to?
Am I discouraged? Every time I step off the path, every time I take my eyes off my Lord, I fall too — not physically, but somewhere just as real. Something inside me shatters, the way glass shatters when it’s dropped, a hundred small pieces scattering at once. I know I am not capable of this on my own. I open my heart to Him, and I know that with the love and strength He gives me, I can still move forward.
Lord, keep me aware of the falling, the shattering, so with Your help I can get up and do better.
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This fall asks something specific of us: to be faithful, to admit our own moments of weakness honestly, to ask God for the strength we don’t have on our own, and to keep asking for the plain gift of perseverance when adversity doesn’t let up. Done well, it can even become a source of encouragement for someone else carrying their own burden.
We all need a deeper awareness of what other people are carrying, and a readiness toward compassion because of it. On the days I find it hard to be Christ-like, I try instead to be like Simon, or like Veronica — small, specific, and present. This station, in the end, is a reminder of both the humanity and the divinity of Jesus, and meditating on it has been a real inspiration to me, and still is.
Continue the Journey
A second fall asks for a particular kind of grace — the grace to get up again. Carry it into another part of your prayer, or another part of your life.